Yesterday's post on Hope received a comment from
Anonymous
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
2 comments:
- acceptance with joy said...
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My one big beef about comments in the blog world is anonymous. Anonymous can hide behind words that can be pretty hurtful, or ignorant, or even tame, but when they aren't couragous enough to sign, it doesn't come across friendly.
- January 11, 2012 at 11:19 AM
- Miz Kizzle said...
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I didn't interpret anonymous' comment as condemning but it WAS insensitive. That's the problem with online interactions. IRL we can see facial expressions, hear tone of voice and gadge body language. In the blogosphere it's all written, and some people express themselves in writing better than others.
I have no doubt that you love Hope and would never, ever tell her she is bad. - January 11, 2012 at 3:21 PM
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show her how MK was little and now is big with pictures and is still there
show her how the pets do something "naughty" and still stay around
show her how your pool gets dirty or needs new chemicals, but it stays.
and for pete's sake, don't tell her she is bad. use naughty or some other word. Tell her she is NOT BAD.
BAD is internalized in the self. her behaviors are naughty, she is not BAD.