tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post7203394060975690864..comments2023-06-26T06:46:55.112-04:00Comments on Adopting Special Needs: TearsGB's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08866513131959998883noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-20939960050184375452011-08-30T10:52:38.135-04:002011-08-30T10:52:38.135-04:00(((((((((((((♥)))))))))))))
It is only in hindsig...(((((((((((((♥)))))))))))))<br /><br />It is only in hindsight of RAD meltdown that I am beginning to understand their perspective. <br /><br />It really helps me to understand that our RADs only know disruption... <br /><br />"Parents leave." and/or "I leave Parents."<br /><br />Our older RAD had an estimated 17 sets of "parents" before us.) They have no experience what-so-ever to base the promise of a "forever family" on. <br /><br />You are one awesome momma!!!!!<br />Keep on keeping on...Hedged in Beautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11814058774756857724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-43712395875366911522011-08-30T01:18:46.067-04:002011-08-30T01:18:46.067-04:00This made me cry, too. Heartbreaking...This made me cry, too. Heartbreaking...Denisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04920110232443808965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-56991600310184936222011-08-29T10:50:01.854-04:002011-08-29T10:50:01.854-04:00Poor little girl...imagine living with that as you...Poor little girl...imagine living with that as your foundational understanding of how things work. No wonder her daily stress level is so close to the breaking point. Mine would be too. :-(<br /><br />Hugs to you. You're a great mom. Keep reminding her of your love. It takes time, but more and more, she will grasp it.Mamita Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15008835660518360884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-41041585002851774742011-08-29T09:25:52.384-04:002011-08-29T09:25:52.384-04:00More hugs to you and Hope.More hugs to you and Hope.Accidental Experthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12076925529372019604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-63397121808303639252011-08-29T07:51:07.635-04:002011-08-29T07:51:07.635-04:00this made me cry...to think like that must be hard...this made me cry...to think like that must be hard.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-70146165055526811532011-08-28T21:00:59.439-04:002011-08-28T21:00:59.439-04:00Now I'm crying. Bless her heart. Honestly, I...Now I'm crying. Bless her heart. Honestly, I think J thought the same thing (even though she's been home for 5 years) until we did the commitment ceremony this June. Somehow something just clicked for her then....<br /><br />It will for Hope too. You're an amazing mother, L!Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16146320008307628429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-7323543645278962152011-08-28T20:23:59.783-04:002011-08-28T20:23:59.783-04:00I remember the day before our adoption as we were ...I remember the day before our adoption as we were explaining what adoption is. Our son listened closely, then asked, "So, a while after that, I will go back in foster care, right?" Broke my heart too.Barb Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14160363075076811996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-55736643998982357642011-08-28T20:12:57.874-04:002011-08-28T20:12:57.874-04:00Poor baby!! (((HUGS)) to you and your lil darling...Poor baby!! (((HUGS)) to you and your lil darling. <br /><br />You are such an awesome momma!!<br /><br /><br />Love you darling!"Lil Ol' Me"https://www.blogger.com/profile/02432507111794692581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-30366218825558449692011-08-28T19:49:36.333-04:002011-08-28T19:49:36.333-04:00Bless her sweet heart. So glad she has you and wo...Bless her sweet heart. So glad she has you and won't EVER have to leave. ((Hugs to you and Hope))Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18183426821328179143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-12636498697808562302011-08-28T18:00:44.064-04:002011-08-28T18:00:44.064-04:00Mmm so sad. :(Mmm so sad. :(Medkidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13844231660013945062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-13126647108262892942011-08-28T17:12:40.921-04:002011-08-28T17:12:40.921-04:00i love you mom, you are amazing....xoxoxo to you a...i love you mom, you are amazing....xoxoxo to you all. (p.s. deep breath) :)angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04438274815538969862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-3449567331767990682011-08-28T17:11:36.202-04:002011-08-28T17:11:36.202-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04438274815538969862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-59745635126161142522011-08-28T16:34:11.486-04:002011-08-28T16:34:11.486-04:00Wow. That must have been heart breaking honey. I c...Wow. That must have been heart breaking honey. I can't imagine feeling that way. I can't imagine how it made your momma's heart feel. She'll see - she's never leaving. Love you.Kelleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12436940857518345012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-43095708438653483472011-08-28T14:28:38.927-04:002011-08-28T14:28:38.927-04:00My girl is always waiting for the other shoe to dr...My girl is always waiting for the other shoe to drop, too.Last Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12381377825784945623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-86806534276077217062011-08-28T14:26:58.921-04:002011-08-28T14:26:58.921-04:00*Sigh* I get it.
(((HUGS))) for you both!*Sigh* I get it.<br /><br />(((HUGS))) for you both!Sunday Koffron Taylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00859347065249826781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-10055145584737391752011-08-28T14:14:15.575-04:002011-08-28T14:14:15.575-04:00How did you respond?How did you respond?Rosaliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11895463822578612513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2615738387814644598.post-32030461059175714042011-08-28T13:03:04.678-04:002011-08-28T13:03:04.678-04:00(((HUGS))) Heart Breaking(((HUGS))) Heart BreakingKatydidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10894450355769648784noreply@blogger.com